i SERIOUSLY need to get started on my packing man... darn.. i've only dumped my stuff into the luggage, which is bulging n yet i have been too lazy to sit down n pack nicely... i'm in such deep sheet.. i think tonight is the night to really sit down n pack PROPER...

Met up with the Ex HP girls last night... it was fun and filled with laughted as usual... Then again, it soon went on with talks of wedding preparations... which never fails to make me jittery coz of all the procedures and superstitious things you need to do, it's never endin i tell you... different dialects with different requirements... n in the end, its a FUSION, EVERYTHING also need to do... i tell you, its crazy..
I had this conversation with XH and Macy before the rest came as well.. about the Chief of Honour.... which ones are good.. and i am strongly against the recite together procedure.. i've been through so many and i've never seen a proper recitation together by the bride n bridegroom.. i find it weird....Personally, i prefer the church styles... or basically just the "read your own vow" kind... Doesn't necessarily have to be your own... but i thought it will be more meaningful to create your own vow... i ALSO think that it's more sincere to memorize your VOW before hand.. so that on the day, you dont have the 'HUH?' and 'what?' situation... and your vow is supposed to be extremely sincere and say it to your partner, look him in the eye, instead of fumbling... i've been to one, whereby they read the entire para, holdin hands, lookin at each other in the eye.. that is sooooooooo much better than those other Solemnizations i've been to.......

Had a short dessert meet up @ my beloved PS cafe again.. this time it was fudgy brownie and boy, it was Oooooomph!! haha.. got home before 1130... such a gd girl.. but it wasn't till 130am when i turned in...

Finally, i'm feelin closer to my new colleagues.. i think thanks to this guy's farewell... we actually had a group lunch and joked around and i'm on everyone's MSN, so things are movin along n feelin better.. sad thing is i'm leavin them liao... hahaha, irony....

OK, pretty much peaceful today.. I was just thinkin, since i've got nothin much to do.. let me just list down the to do n not to do for weddings! haha, you'll be surprised i tell you...

1) Need pig's legs cans (tew ka guan)
2) REAL pork's legs
3) Female side parents must give the Bridegroom a pair of pants
4) Need 2 fans (or shan4 zi3)
5) Bride must carry umbrella (strange huh???)
6) must throw the dunno what yin2 zi3
7) must have oil lamp at bedside
8) Must give XO liquor
9) si4 dian3 jing1
10) must eat tang yuan on the day
11) Cannot look back when u leave the house
12) must have metal wash basin and the potty pot
13) ONE BIG ROST PORK
14) Gate crashing can only eat sweet things (this one got different versions)
15) cannot take off shoes in new house?
16) girls parents will buy the new bed sheets for her...
17) everythin received must give back half
18) dont know why my bro's weddin got a basket of ferrero rochere
19) must have many many pple in new house
20) must have boy roll on bed
21) wait for the good time (liang2 chen2 ji2 ri4)

I'm tired already.... see? still dare to get married?!?!?!?!?!